What is an elopement?

Elopement, in the context of weddings, is when a couple decides to get married in a sudden and secretive manner, often without the knowledge or consent of their families. It's typically a smaller, more intimate ceremony than a traditional wedding.

Here's some key information about elopements:

• Definition: An elopement usually involves the couple running away together to get married, although the definition has evolved over time. Modern elopements can simply mean a small, intimate wedding with just the couple and a few close friends or family members. More about the definition can be found on this site: What is Elopement

• Secrecy: Traditionally, secrecy was a crucial element of elopement. The couple would keep their plans hidden from family and friends until after the marriage had taken place. However, many modern couples choose to inform their immediate families beforehand.

• Location: Elopements can happen anywhere – from a courthouse to a mountaintop. The location is often chosen for its significance to the couple or for its aesthetic appeal. Elopement Locations are quite different than conventional weddings.

• Guests: Elopements are typically smaller than traditional weddings. They might involve just the couple, an officiant, and a photographer, or a small group of close family and friends.

• Cost: Elopements are often less expensive than traditional weddings. This is because there are fewer guests, less elaborate decorations, and potentially a shorter or less extravagant reception. You can learn more about Elopement Costs on our site.

• Reasons for Eloping: Couples choose to elope for a variety of reasons, including:

  • Desire for a more intimate and personal ceremony
  • Financial constraints
  • Family drama or disapproval
  • Aversion to large gatherings
  • Adventure and spontaneity

• Photography/Videography: Many couples hire a photographer or videographer to capture their elopement ceremony and create lasting memories.

• Modern Elopements: The meaning of elopement has evolved, with many couples choosing to have what they call an "intentional elopement," which is a small, intimate wedding planned with intention, rather than a sudden, secretive act.